If we want to get a biblical view of sexual passion and its place in
loving marriages, the Song of Songs is one place that holds nothing back. Solomon, whose
wisdom was by God's own words unmatched by any person before or since (see 1 Kings 3:12),
was probably the author, although it is not certain. If so, then this book should be
viewed as a celebration of God's gift of sexual intimacy expressed in its proper context
and with God-given, not humanistic, wisdom. When you have a chance, take the time to read
through the entire book.
For now, focus on the verse above. It seems a little out of place
considering the rest of the book, which speaks of unrestrained entry into intimate
relationship, and of the many different modes in which such relationship is expressed,
including the longing that accompanies separation, the enjoyment of physical beauty, and
the excitement of anticipation. Yet, this advice for caution is so important that it is
repeated three times in the book.
So what are the consequences of arousing love before its time?
Certainly Solomon knew of the power of sexual desire, and had firsthand experience with
the difficulty of resisting temptation. This verse advises avoidance of artificial means
of arousal and stimulation. In its context, it advises waiting for the proper time and
place, and in that setting enjoying all love has to offer. The author knew that sexual
passion, once aroused, is difficult to bridle and control, and leads into many possible
avenues of sin.
Don't be deceived into thinking that a little dabbling around with
illicit materials or a quick peek here or there is harmless. Anytime you're moving in that
direction you're playing with fire. So, be wise and take Solomon's advice.