Porn’s Playground

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Title: Porn’s Playground
Keywords: "fake realities" "past" "present"
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Passages*

Proverbs 27:1
Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring forth.

James 4:14-15

14. Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.

15. Instead, you ought to say, "If it is the Lord's will, we will live and do this or that."

Question

Why is the future undependable?

 

Practical help

The past and future are jointly porn's playground.

They're where our fantasies go to take our mind off the here and now.

They're where we go to improve our sexual self-esteem.

And, sadly, they're where we go to resolve other insecurities and fears. "I'd be better off if I hadn't done [fill in the blank] in the past." Or, "I'll be better off as soon as I [fill in the blank] in the future."

In fact, the past and future are where our thoughts venture to seek peace, happiness and just about every other spiritual and emotional contentment we'd ever want — but seldom, if ever, get.

There's a good reason for the inevitable disappointment of living in the past and future.

They're fake realities.

From Scripture's standpoint, there's only one negotiable reality — the present.

How can this truth help us conquer our porn habit — and other anxieties?

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