It’s WHO You Know (and WHO Knows You!) That Counts
 

It’s WHO You Know (and WHO Knows You!) That Counts

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Title: It’s WHO You Know (and WHO Knows You!) That Counts----------- Date: 6/15/2000
Keywords:    "be subject"


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Passages: Ephesians 5:21*

and be subject to one another in the fear of Christ

Questions

1. In this verse, Paul speaks about the quality of relationships Christians are to sustain with each other. What word does he use to describe how we should relate to each other?

 

2. What mental image comes to your mind when you picture someone “being subject” to someone else?

 

3. How is it possible that two people (or a whole church?!) could be in reciprocal, subject relationships?

 

Practical help

The quality of relationships we sustain with each other in the church is a determining factor in our ability to stand strong in the face of sexual temptation. Christian counselor Larry Crabb has been quoted as saying that he would be more optimistic for the sexual purity of the man who was in an unhealthy marriage but who had a healthy network of male friends than the man who was in a sexually satisfying marriage, but who had few, if any, good male friends.

To “be subject to one another in the fear of Christ” means that there is serving going back and forth, love being shared, accountability, encouragement constantly at work. In short, it implies that each one is giving his strength to support the other.

Brothers (and sisters!), if you want to stand strong in the face of sexual temptation, get involved in the lives of your brothers (and sisters) in Christ! You are not meant to “go it alone.” Standing strong is best done with arms linked with friends under the Lordship of Christ.


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"Scripture taken from the NEW AMERICAN STANDARD BIBLE®, © Copyright The Lockman Foundation 1960, 1962, 1963, 1968, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1975, 1977, 1995. Used by permission."