Discretion: the Greater Part of Wisdom

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Title: Discretion: the Greater Part of Wisdom------------- Date: 10/28/98

Keywords: "discretion" "knowledge" "prudence" "wisdom"


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This is the sixth segment in a seven-part study on biblical wisdom. Click here for parts 1 2 3 4 5 7.

Passage: Proverbs 8:1-12*

1. Does not wisdom call out? Does not understanding raise her voice?

2. On the heights along the way, where the paths meet, she takes her stand;

3. beside the gates leading into the city, at the entrances, she cries aloud:

4. "To you, O men, I call out; I raise my voice to all mankind.

5. You who are simple, gain prudence; you who are foolish, gain understanding.

6. Listen, for I have worthy things to say; I open my lips to speak what is right.

7. My mouth speaks what is true, for my lips detest wickedness.

8. All the words of my mouth are just; none of them is crooked or perverse.

9. To the discerning all of them are right; they are faultless to those who have knowledge.

10. Choose my instruction instead of silver, knowledge rather than choice gold,

11. for wisdom is more precious than rubies, and nothing you desire can compare with her.

12. "I, wisdom, dwell together with prudence; I possess knowledge and discretion.

Questions

1. What is wisdom's companion (verse 12)?

 

2. What is the difference between prudence and fear?

 

3. How do knowledge and discretion complement each other?

 

Practical help

Not all knowledge is commendable. Time-honored axioms such as "mind your own business," for example, attest to wise limits to our "need to know." As the Apostle Paul might say: All knowledge is allowed, but not all of it is edifying (1 Corinthians 6:12 and 10:23). No wonder verse 12 in the Proverbs chapter above pictures knowledge and discretion as partners in wisdom. It's wise to pursue knowledge, but it's wiser to know when to be discrete — to draw the line.

What advice can a porn struggler take from this? Suggestions:

1. It's okay — even wise — to know about sexuality. It's God-given and God-approved.

2. But when the desire for such knowledge could involve "virtual" sex with someone other than a spouse, it's time to draw the line. Why? Proverbs 30:33 teaches that if you rehearse a deed repeatedly in your imagination, you'll eventually commit the deed in reality.

So let discretion be the greater part of wisdom. Many people have learned to draw the line and avoid the "virtual" knowledge of sex flaunted on the porn sites. These folks are cheering you on to heed the same wisdom. You can do it!


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