Bound to Love

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Title: Bound to Love ------------------- Date: 12/8/2001
Keywords: "bond" "love" "unity" "wear"
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Passage: Colossians 3:14*

And beyond all these things put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity.

Questions

1. Is it easy for you to love?

 

2. Does porn have a unifying effect on your life or make it more fractured?

 

Practical help

So how do you "put on love" (as in verse 14 above)?

Somehow that seems a little artificial. Is love something you can take out of the dresser drawer and put on when you get dressed in the morning? Doesn't it have to be a part of you? And what's all this "perfect bond of unity" stuff?

Picture this — Before the first man and woman thought they needed to know as much as God does, they lived in a perfect, harmonious, unified and love-based world. At that time all they needed to wear, literally, was God's love. Man (Adam) and woman (Eve) walked around in the buff, and it was lovely, not pornographic.

Enter sin. The formerly unified world is now disjoint, and so goes the sublime.

Now the buff view beckons disjoint thoughts, and clothes are a must. Not because the view is necessarily bad, we just can't manage what it causes us to think. This disjoint thinking happens because our nature (since the fall) is no longer love-based. Pre-fall love just doesn't come naturally any more; it has to be chosen, embraced, worn. (To find out more about this kind of love, click here.)

Would you love to rid yourself of a porn habit? Purpose to put on God's love every morning. Go through the motions of putting it on if that helps focus your thinking. It will certainly help you to see what is lovely and what is not.


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